The death of Alviss Kong (Jiangshi Feng)

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China Press Article

hey peeps, okay.. so i know it's been long since the death of a 22 year old Malaysian named Alviss Kong (Jiangshi Feng) and IT staff, born on the 22nd of May 1988. But it's like a week now and i still see tons of post about him. some hating him and some worships him for what he did. but to be honest, i find rather stupid for both parties to love or hate him for what he has done. he's nothing but just a young-adult who was caught up emotionally.

so the story goes when his girlfriend (second relationship) of four months ended their relationship that began on the 26th of July 2010 and he decided to end his life by jumping off his apartment from the 14th floor because he thinks that theres no use living due to a so call loved one broke and shattered his heart. before he committed suicide, he left a note on his Facebook wall stating on what should he do for 45 minutes and counting down. then, he jumped.

his last words with his sister through Facebook.

so, i don't know why he did that or what was the reason to kill yourself for a girlfriend of four months, but i sure do know that it was not the correct decision to make and he lived on the 5th floor. so from the 5th floor all the way up to the 14th floor he at least had 5 minutes to think about it. honestly, i would kill just to know whats on his mind that time. the thing is, before jumping of his apartment, he went to 'Yam Cha' drink tea on a nearby stall on his apartment premises. seriously, he actually had a full hour to think of not jumping off but he did anyways. i really wanna know what was on his mind that day.

so, he took the leap of faith death and landed on someones car. was pronounced dead at 9 am the next day.

aftermath of the car.

i dont really know why a 22 year old would do that. besides, its his second relationship. as i stumbled upon all the articles and comments on Alviss' death, i really, really like how this guy (known as Tekkaus), a married man posted on his blog about what he thinks about Alviss' action.

as for me, reading his post made me realize that what he said was true. he mentioned, suicide isn't the answer and listed four ways why Alviss was a selfish man instead. well, nobody can say it better than Tekkaus did.

so yeah, go check his post and read it. if you want information on Alviss as well check out this. click here.

anyways, thats all i wanna talk about. its just a messed up world that we live in, but we can make a change and a different by putting effort in it to help this world be a better place. just that, effort can change the world.

it sucks to know that someone died on my birthday for a girl as well and i just found out that five of my friends knew him. well, R.I.P Alviss.

whatever it is, just be sure to think before you act. again. 

DYING IS NOT GONNA SOLVE ANYTHING!

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check out Tekkaus blog post [click]

info on Alviss [click]

Original China Press Article [click]

Translated Version [click]

unfortunately, all the links to the wall post, notes has been removed from FB, his blog was made private and so is his FB page. so theres no point clicking them.

check out befriends to prevent suicides and get counseling [click]

so, yeah.. don't kill yourself for no apparent reason. R.I.P Alviss.

CHEERS

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Half A Year

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anyways, I'm back.. yea, com finally fixed and guess what, my dream of getting a VAIO is gone. I'm getting some lame com instead.. ): my HP Compaq now is like, screwed up.

anyways, I'm kinda tired to post anything up now.
just a few words though, i find reminiscence quite funny, it can also be painful at the same time, and hurtful.

sometimes i look back through the past, mine usually. sometimes other peoples past, like people i care and love.
when you read back or think back these kind of things, the first thing you have to do is build up trust in yourself and in that person you are with (if you're looking back at their past)

without trust, you can resolve into misunderstanding and unnecessary argument. thats what i just learned. say, you look back at your past, and you had an ex-girlfriend/boyfriend, and if you aren't strong enough, you'll fall back into the pass and thinking shits that you're not supposed to think of. you're destroying your relationship between who you're with currently, slowly killing it, without you knowing..

and if you look at your partners past, be sure you never get any wrong ideas. remember that they 'were' together before, not 'are'. so just stay strong, and build trust in relationships. its good to talk about it so we wont have to think about anything and go paranoid about thinking of it over and over again and not getting an answer for it. so, just have faith with one another. she loves you, he loves you. its meant to be.

love doesnt come by choosing the perfect one, there is no perfect one. love comes from building relationships, the longer you get to know he or she, the better you both will live together without killing each other. love comes by relationship in trust, not finding the perfect one.

so remember, there's no perfect love in this world, fairy-tales were never real. its reality you have to face, and to make a love perfect is to go through trial and errors and mend it as we continue fighting this battlefield that we fell into.

i should be a psychiatrist or a love guru perhaps. :D
haha, just saying.

so anyways, have a great week. (:

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cheers..